Something you’ve never told anyone before. Or, at least, that you’ve never told a group of strangers before.

Something that reveals a vulnerability. That takes an emotional risk.

It’s a real story – about you. Other people’s flaws/faults/secrets are their own to confess.

It should take no more than 5 minutes.

One more thing: Yes, we want you to be vulnerable. But we also want you to be psychologically safe. Don’t reveal more than you feel comfortable revealing.

Absolutely not. It’s totally fine just to listen.

Sorry! I haven’t written this bit yet.

Yep! Here they are:

1. Lean into it.

Making mistakes, having flaws, hurting others – they’re all by-products of being human. Listen generously.

2. But don’t feel pressured.

You don’t have to do or say anything.

3. Speak for yourself.

Don’t reveal other people’s secrets. Unless they’re dead. Or you’re dead. And don’t hassle the friend you came with to tell us that thing they told you that time.

4. Keep safe.

Vulnerability can be liberating – emotional unravelling, not so much.

If you’re confessing, don’t reveal anything you’ll regret later – we want you to walk out of here unburdened, not traumatised.

If you’re just listening, remember that there are no trigger warnings. Some confessions are full on. Take a break if you need to.

5. Don’t blab.

You are about to be honoured with privileged information. It’s not gossip; it’s a gift. Respect the speaker with your discretion.

There’s a couple of things – but I haven’t finished writing this bit either.

Check back in later!

We’ve emailed you special guidelines.

Of course!

Send us a message via the contact page.

Kind of.

Once we’re done, your hosts will repair to a local establishment.

Everyone is invited along, so if you want to join us, please do. But there’s no pressure.